You might think we Peck & Call Girls are biased, but we are emotionally intelligent women, and we would be remiss if we did not address this question honestly. After all, each of us has had to face the reality of how we feel about married or committed men calling us or using our services.
We’ve all been asked, sometimes in an accusatory manner, this very question. And, “Isn’t exchanging intimate emails or text messages, chatting or cybering with a married man cheating?”
The complicated truth is, “It all depends upon who you ask!”
In terms of your own relationship, if you and your partner have not discussed the subject of phone sex or other virtual sex acts — and both clearly agreed that it is OK — then your partner may feel it’s cheating. But that doesn’t mean it’s so.
We do recommend, for the sake of your relationship, that you do have an honest conversation about phone sex and other forms of erotic entertainment with your spouse or partner; here are some points to include in that discussion.
Many people consider phone sex or any intimate communication (including standard companionship intimacies as well as sexual conversations) to be a betrayal. At the very least, it might prompt the insecure question, “Why aren’t you sharing that with me?”
But really, phone sex is interactive audio porn and therefore no more upsetting than reading an erotic book, flipping through a men’s magazine, watching a porno, etc.; it’s simply solo erotic entertainment. Even if the person delivering it, guiding it, is enjoying it too.
While some other types of sex work are seen as perhaps crossing a line, phone sex, guided masturbation, and other arousing communication services are less threatening as there is no touching, no health threats from the exchange of bodily fluids, no meeting face to face.
While it’s true that we pride ourselves on offering companionship and emotional intimacy along with arousing pleasures, we are professionals — and as such do not become so deluded or confused by the intimacies or fantasies as to intrude on a client’s “real life” with expectations, stalking, etc..
That’s the beauty of using a professional virtual sex service; it’s no more risky to your relationship than the paid services of a therapist.
