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Fear & Sex

In his book, Who’s Been Sleeping in Your Head: The Secret World of Sexual Fantasies, Kahr notes that Freudian therapists believe that sexual fantasies develop “as both a means of gratifying wishes and of conquering intrusive memories of early traumatic experiences,” achieving what Kahr calls “equilibration of the self” as the sex fantasies are used to master or diminish the things which haunt the psyche.

Think what you will of Freud and psychotherapy, but we think there’s something to this… Even if you haven’t a trauma to conquer.

In fact, many of our sexual fantasies are about creating traumas and other things to conquer, if only in that scene. It’s been our collective experience that things which scare us often thrill us, that demons can be subordinated to the slight of hand of masterful masturbation, and even just a plain old bad day is often made better with some erotic fantasy.

Interesting how the most twisted things balance us out, isn’t it? *wink*

…Maybe we need to change our motto to Peck & Call Girls: Let us help you achieve your equilibration of self in the most gratifying way.

Don’t Be Shy! (Reactions To Sex Fantasies)

On first reading many people become either sexually aroused by the private fantasies of others or embarrassed by them.

So states Brett Kahr in Who’s Been Sleeping in Your Head: The Secret World of Sexual Fantasies.

The fact that we Peck and Call girls can staunchly and raunchily claim to do the first, become aroused upon hearing the private sex fantasies of others, has much to do with our status as true courtesans.

Intuitively we can take the point of view of a therapist, approaching, as Kahr says, “each fantasy rather like a giant jigsaw puzzle or mystery story. At the end of the analysis, every piece must fit in order that we may gain a clear picture of the contents of the mind of the fantasist.”

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