Archive for October, 2010

Don’t Be Shy! (Reactions To Sex Fantasies)

On first reading many people become either sexually aroused by the private fantasies of others or embarrassed by them.

So states Brett Kahr in Who’s Been Sleeping in Your Head: The Secret World of Sexual Fantasies.

The fact that we Peck and Call girls can staunchly and raunchily claim to do the first, become aroused upon hearing the private sex fantasies of others, has much to do with our status as true courtesans.

Intuitively we can take the point of view of a therapist, approaching, as Kahr says, “each fantasy rather like a giant jigsaw puzzle or mystery story. At the end of the analysis, every piece must fit in order that we may gain a clear picture of the contents of the mind of the fantasist.”

Fingernail Fetish?

A confession from Secondhand Rose:

I’m often teased, “OMG, how do you type with those nails?!”

My answer usually is, “I do just that; I type with my fingernails, not my fingertips!” But the honest truth is that I probably won’t pass any typing tests — neither timed, nor for accuracy. *wink*

Long fingernails are sometimes a pain in this modern world of keyboards and keypads — don’t get me started on those little buttons on cell phones! (Even short nails are a problem with all these tech toys!)

But I’ll happily trade some speed and accuracy when tying, and purchase a pretty stylus to “dial” my phone, rather than trim my natural long nails.

To me, long fingernails are not only symbols of my femininity, but one of the natural perks of being a girl.

Long nails, especially smartly polished ones, are sexy; manicures are a treat; and I’ll admit I thoroughly enjoy the way they can be employed on a partner. … Is that a thrilling erotic shiver down your spine — or my fingernails? Both? *wicked grin*

Long painted fingernails are also a statement of prestige: lily-white hands with nails allowed to grow, pretty signs that I do not have to perform manual labor.

They are at once both a luxury and evidence that I myself am a luxury item.

Photo via Nailpro Magazine.

The Primary Courtesan Rule

On one hand, saying that courtesans have rules seems a bit of an oxymoron — courtesans are, after all, rule breakers in many ways!  But good, successful, desired courtesans must have some rules, some standards of conduct and personal attributes, which separate them from the standard mistress or other forms of compensated companionship (including wives!) that otherwise exist.

Perhaps the most essential “rule” is that a courtesan is intelligent; without this trait, most of the other traits, rules, and requirements are rendered useless.

According to Howard Gardner, there are Nine Types of Intelligence, of which we Peck & Call Girls believe a good courtesan (yes, even if “only” on the phone or in chat!) must, at the very least, possess these six: Logical-Mathematical Intelligence, Existential Intelligence, Interpersonal Intelligence, Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence, Linguistic Intelligence, and Intra-personal Intelligence.

Do we even have to say that each and every Peck & Call Girl does possess these multiple intelligences? *wink*

Well, we do. And several others too. Complete the potential client screening and see!

Sensitive, Accepting Phone Companionship

The Peck & Call Girls are not only hot, sensual, aural courtesans, appreciated by phone sex connoisseurs, we are intuitive companions and understanding confidants — we are, as sexologist Carol Queen says, sex positive:

Sex-positivity allows for and in fact celebrates sexual diversity, differing desires and relationships structures, and individual choices based on consent.

As sex positive women we “consent and embrace open sexuality with few limits — unique sexual profiles, even as we acknowledge that some of us have been damaged by a culture that tries to eradicate sexual difference and possibility.”

You can count on us to understand your kink, accept and consent to your taboos — and create terrific fabulous fantasies upon them too.

Carol Queen quotes from The Necessary Revolution: Sex-Positive Feminism in the Post-Barnard Era. The Communication Review 11(3):274–291.

Are You Game For Virtual Courtesanship?

Seems many are; digital service GameCrush, which pairs gamers with a beautiful woman to play online games with, is a hit.

Is Phone Sex Cheating?

You might think we Peck & Call Girls are biased, but we are emotionally intelligent women, and we would be remiss if we did not address this question honestly. After all, each of us has had to face the reality of how we feel about married or committed men calling us or using our services.

We’ve all been asked, sometimes in an accusatory manner, this very question. And, “Isn’t exchanging intimate emails or text messages, chatting or cybering with a married man cheating?”

The complicated truth is, “It all depends upon who you ask!”

In terms of your own relationship, if you and your partner have not discussed the subject of phone sex or other virtual sex acts — and both clearly agreed that it is OK — then your partner may feel it’s cheating. But that doesn’t mean it’s so.

We do recommend, for the sake of your relationship, that you do have an honest conversation about phone sex and other forms of erotic entertainment with your spouse or partner; here are some points to include in that discussion.

Many people consider phone sex or any intimate communication (including standard companionship intimacies as well as sexual conversations) to be a betrayal. At the very least, it might prompt the insecure question, “Why aren’t you sharing that with me?”

But really, phone sex is interactive audio porn and therefore no more upsetting than reading an erotic book, flipping through a men’s magazine, watching a porno, etc.; it’s simply solo erotic entertainment. Even if the person delivering it, guiding it, is enjoying it too.

While some other types of sex work are seen as perhaps crossing a line, phone sex, guided masturbation, and other arousing communication services are less threatening as there is no touching, no health threats from the exchange of bodily fluids, no meeting face to face.

While it’s true that we pride ourselves on offering companionship and emotional intimacy along with arousing pleasures, we are professionals — and as such do not become so deluded or confused by the intimacies or fantasies as to intrude on a client’s “real life” with expectations, stalking, etc..

That’s the beauty of using a professional virtual sex service; it’s no more risky to your relationship than the paid services of a therapist.

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