How To Handle Performance Anxiety

At this blog, we talk quite a bit about stress — and how we can help reduce it. But what about those times when your excitement over your special date turns becomes the stress? And not just any old stress, but the dreaded “performance anxiety”?

It may sound funny that a client would have anxiety when their date is a “sure thing,” a professional. But anxieties about sexual performance happen more often than you might think. In fact, many escort websites (including this site for Perth escorts) will discuss anxieties vs sex performance. And we understand that it can happen with virtual escorts too.

One of the best ways to avoid anxiety is to follow our list of appointment tips. But here are three more tips to help you set aside such anxieties and make the most of your courtesan companions:

1) Stop viewing your time as a performance! It isn’t! Just relax and enjoy the companionship… Talk about other interests, sip some wine, have a smoke… Just be in the moment! There’s no need to rush into anything. Nor is there any reason your date has to involve sex. Trust me, sex, masturbation, orgasm — none are mandatory. You will not be judged. You won’t be letting your girl down in any way.

2) If you feel especially stressed, unable to relax, practice some breathing exercises. One of my favorites is to simply breathe in naturally through your nose, and then exhale through your mouth. These are normal breaths (they should not sound like snoring!), which means your companion won’t even notice you doing it. Yet, the simple act of focusing on your controlling your breathing helps alleviate physical and emotional stress. Try it, it works!

3) Any good medical professional will tell you that talking with a therapist or counselor can help. And it is always advised to address sexual concerns with your partner too. Since we often occupy both the role of partner and “therapist”, talking to us honestly about any concerns or issues is a very good thing. Remember, we are here to help you have a wonderful time!

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