Naughty & Nice Holiday Treats!

Peck-and-Call-Girls-Holiday-Treats‘Tis the season to evaluate whether you’ve been naughty or nice, right?

But no worries, for no matter what list you are on, a number of the Peck & Call Girls have super sexy holiday treats for you!

Because we know everyone is busy this time of year (including all your favorite female companions!), many of these offerings make it much easier to sneak in a treat for yourself — but please note that some of these holiday specials are available for a limited time only! (Not everything can last as long as Aunt Edna’s fruitcake!)

A Slip Of A Girl is now — for a limited time only — offering a look at her Christmas stockings!

Twenty-six (26) rare photos – previously only available to VIPs!

Be a voyeur as Slippy, wearing a vintage ivory satin bullet bra with a matching ivory satin girdle over pink full-coverage panties, as she slips on a pair of vintage textured beige nylon stockings.

PS If you want to see what comes next, message her and maybe you’ll get lucky! *wink*


Trailer Trash Angel (who is soooo Not your Angel) wants you to enjoy the holiday season — in femdom style, of course! In addition to that, she has another “sick” option:

Been thinking a lot about this & I want you to get it & perform on cam for Me.

Whether you enjoy our erotic holiday entertainment or not, each of us wish you & yours a joyous holiday season!

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How To Handle Performance Anxiety

At this blog, we talk quite a bit about stress — and how we can help reduce it. But what about those times when your excitement over your special date becomes the stress? And not just any old stress, but the dreaded “performance anxiety”?

It may sound funny that a client would have anxiety when their date is a “sure thing,” a professional. But anxieties about sexual performance happen more often than you might think. In fact, many escort websites (including this site for Perth escorts) will discuss anxieties vs sex performance. And we understand that it can happen with virtual escorts too.

One of the best ways to avoid anxiety is to follow our list of appointment tips. But here are three more tips to help you set aside such anxieties and make the most of your courtesan companions:

1) Stop viewing your time as a performance! It isn’t! Just relax and enjoy the companionship… Talk about other interests, sip some wine, have a smoke… Just be in the moment! There’s no need to rush into anything. Nor is there any reason your date has to involve sex. Trust me, sex, masturbation, orgasm — none are mandatory. You will not be judged. You won’t be letting your girl down in any way.

2) If you feel especially stressed, unable to relax, practice some breathing exercises. One of my favorites is to simply breathe in naturally through your nose, and then exhale through your mouth. These are normal breaths (they should not sound like snoring!), which means your companion won’t even notice you doing it. Yet, the simple act of focusing on your controlling your breathing helps alleviate physical and emotional stress. Try it, it works!

3) Any good medical professional will tell you that talking with a therapist or counselor can help. And it is always advised to address sexual concerns with your partner too. Since we often occupy both the role of partner and “therapist”, talking to us honestly about any concerns or issues is a very good thing. Remember, we are here to help you have a wonderful time!

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What’s Real, Who’s Fake, What’s Private? Truths About Virtual Sex Affairs

A friend, Darla, suggested we talk a bit about the whole Ashley Madison fiasco. Her most specific question was this tweet:

Since this whole subject draws on my personal experiences as a former escort and my gig as the fearless leader of the Peck & Call Girls, I shall introduce myself as Secondhand Rose. And I’ll admit, I was more than a bit reluctant to discuss this topic because, well, frankly, I don’t like to be negative. Neither regarding a specific website nor a lifestyle choice — nor anything in between. But questions like this continue to surface…

Having been an escort, I can tell you that there are plenty of reasons for a married man — or woman, for that matter — to seek sex outside of marriage or other committed monogamous relationship. They, as well as the single folks, may opt for the services or company of professionals. Volumes have been written on the subject, text tomes and digital expressions alike; so I won’t enter into all of them. Chances are, if you are reading here you have your own reasons and they honestly do not need to be justified. You are a human being and you have needs, period.

I am not the only Peck & Call Girl with this sincere understanding; some of us are married, some of us were once, others never married because monogamy so isn’t their thing. We get it. I mean that. We don’t just understand your kink, your fetish, your dirty little (and not so little) desires; we also understand what drives your emotional lust too. I know this because I’ve only let the women who understand human sexuality (both the “humanity” and the “sex” parts) join our merry band.

Others are not so understanding. In fact, Ashley Madison was likely targeted for hacking because of the “moral judgements” made by the hackers. This judge-jury-hangman stance alone means the victims deserve our understanding.

But to address Darla’s specific question, regarding “fake” women, you first have to understand the news beneath most of the headlines.

Due to the disproportionate number of men and women at Ashley M. — and plenty of other dating sites, free sites or those with paid memberships — these sites employ what they call “Online Emissaries” or “Legates.” These “emissaries” may be a corporate employee or even a bot of some sort that poses as a female member and interacts with male user accounts. In some cases, the profiles themselves are taken or even scrapped from other sites, such as camgirl sites. Sometimes, the helpful flirty emissary will direct men to escorts or other sex workers. Depending upon your feelings regarding these options, you are (at best?) either entertained for free by a non-existent woman or (at worst?) sent to pay for your affair elsewhere. Some of these sites explicitly state this practice, even if it is buried rather deep in great paragraphs of tiny text. With the Peck & Call Girls, there are no legates, bots, or other emissaries. You know up front that you are dealing with the honest to goodness courtesan you’ve contacted! This is why Darla refers to us as “real women.”

Other questions I’ve been fielding on the subject have to do with entire other notions of what is real and what is fake…

Some who subscribe to sites like Ashley M. (and/or prefer to pay for the services of sex workers they can meet in the real world) often refer to phone sex operators as the fakes. To be as fair as I can to all involved here (and I sincerely do wish to — I can’t won’t diminish the validity of touch, in-person meetings, or other personal needs), I think the better way to differentiate would be to compare sex with another human being to solo-sex. Masturbation is sex. And whether you practice mutual masturbation or have a PSO direct or guide your masturbation, it’s still sex. It’s still real. And so is the person on the other end of the telephone connection. If you prefer the in-person couplings, that’s just fine. But it’s not fair to dismiss the power of sexual gratification and intimate connections via telephone or other means of communication — or the human beings behind the voices and text-typing — as anything less than real.

Having been an escort, I can also tell you that phone sex and the other virtual or digital courtesan services we provide (such as chats, sexting, audio recordings, and written erotica) are far less dangerous than in-the-flesh dalliances. The obvious risks are the legal and health issues. And let’s not forget that some fantasies are safest (and often best) when played within your mind, not played out in the flesh. This is especially true with taboos and fears.

But, typically, virtual sex services are less risky to your real-world relationships as well. (However, when it comes down to how the spouses or partners of our callers feel, we refer you to this post: Is Phone Sex Cheating?.)

I know that some have joined Ashley M. specifically for the “safety” of the cheating aspect. (And, hey, before you pick on me for inferring that Ashley M. is a site for cheaters — the darn site promotes itself with the word, as well as “infidelity.”) For some reason, people continue to believe that if they cheat with another cheater, their secrets are safe. After all, so the thinking goes, they have as much to lose as I do…

But the thing is, how often does that logic actually preserve the secret?

Not often.

Precisely because now it is, at minimum, not one secret but two secrets. And the risk grows exponentially with the number of people being lied to or played.

And then there’s the whole problem with relationships in general, as there’s typically one person who is more invested or “in love” than the other… One person willing to risk or even end their marriage or relationship for the sake of the new affair. Suddenly what was once just a “fun secret affair” is now a brass ring one party wants to grab onto and not let go of. Heck, we all have those friends who hooked-up in a chat room and then suddenly they were being stalked, right?


This is why using professional services is so special and important. Even when things are not purely about the erotic adult entertainment, when things are more honest and friendly in those GFE companionship ways, sex workers know the professional line. Professional phone sex operators stay on the “entertainment” side; they not out to meet, let alone “get”, a man. I know none of the Peck & Call Girls will fall into such delusions or have such aspirations because, again, I have screened them myself. Yes, we may form relationships, intimate friendships; but we are neither falling in love nor encouraging clients to chuck the real world and run away with us. Our telephone and virtual affairs are completely safe this way.

But, of course, no proper discussion of Ashley Madison would be complete without addressing the matters of privacy. So let’s honestly face digital safety factors.

Every Peck & Call Girl uses a secure platform, NiteFlirt, for her professional date time. This provides safe anonymity for all. Our information, your personal information, is safe on NiteFlirt. We only know as much about each other as we dare to share; this is true right down to names. So you can be completely free to play, cuddle, deviate, party, confess — all without the fear that you’ll be outed as some cheating perv.

And, as we are each as discreet as we are unique, your secrets are as safe with us as you wish. This means that even on our blogs and social media accounts we will refrain from identifying you — unless you wish otherwise.  We respect that your user ID and our conversations are confidential. (Of course, if the thrill or fear of such things going public like that is what gets your motor humming, we have girls who will play with that too!) But we won’t kiss and tell unless you express such wishes.

We do take all our privacy seriously.

Yet, we must all face that we live in a time where hacks happen. Should you be concerned about such things, consider the following classics: Virtual Private Networks (VPN) & Internet Message Access Protocol (IMAP). You may also wish to consider safer (non-tracking) browser options such as DuckDuckGo or TOR. If you are truly concerned about privacy, consider a paid email service such as Unspyable.  Additional online security tips are here.

Obviously, the Ashley M. hack was a nightmare due to the personal information tied to credit cards getting out. One way around this is to use a pre-paid credit card with a Visa or MasterCard logo. (Apparently some of these cards require you to call the phone number on the back of the card in order to register a name, SSN, and/or address; I do not know which card issuers require this, but here some folks have ideas.)

Also, while we’re discussing discretion… You may which to review some basics regarding the safety factors involved in gifting your favorite phone sex girl. See: Gifts & Wishlists For PSOs & How To Safely & Anonymously Use CashMe. (This doesn’t only apply to holiday time — we know you gentlemen callers love to send gifts all year ’round. And we so appreciate it! So much so, that we want you to be safe doing so as well.)

…After all of this, the only answer I can give to the, “Why aren’t more men sticking with us?” question is, “They just don’t know about us!”

Well, that and the fact that there are but eight Peck & Call Girls. As great as we women are, we can’t handle the entire male population alone!

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We Have Bewitching Halloween Ideas

peck-and-call-girls-cast-bewitching-erotic-spells-GFE-phone-sexIf you crave more than candy and sweets this Halloween…

If you find fear to be a great aphrodisiac

If you’d like to celebrate the “witch” in “bewitching”…

Have we got news for you!

Several of the Peck & Call Girls are offering very special, erotic, and rather kinky goodies for the Halloween holiday.

Warning: They may just add some “spooky” to your “spunky time.” *wink*

Not your Angel says, “Tricks on you are My Treats!” And to prove it, she has two very humiliating challenges for you:

One involves you serving her as Dobby the House Elf — including cosplay for your cock!

The other is The Great Pumpkining, Charlie Brown.


Secondhand Rose is still polishing her spellbinding story (link will be posted when it’s done!).

Meanwhile, you can read her thoughts about the Gothic romance of BDSM in Haunt Hunt, But No Goth Cunt.

Will there be Happy (Halloween) Endings for all? *soft evil grins & eyebrow wiggles*

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Preventing Civil Society From Falling To Its Knees

We continue discussing the power of human social interaction… Another quote from Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect by Matthew D. Lieberman, this one touching on the topic of taboos:

Each of us has a variety of impulses – desires that if acted on at the wrong time, in the wrong place, and with the wrong people, could bring civil society to its knees.

This, again, is why phone sex is so vital! For not only does phone sex (and other virtual sex options, provided by actual humans — not algorithms or bots) provide the aforementioned social connection — but it provides a safe outlet for playing with taboos without bringing “society to its knees.” Phone sex & our other modern courtesan services provide the right time, place, and persons for such impulses & fantasies.

If we’ve all learned anything from recent news stories about Josh Duggar and Ashley Madison, it’s that repressed sexual fantasies and taboos relegated to the dark recesses of the mind only lead to bad places.

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“It Is The Brain’s Preferred State Of Being”

In 2012, the Harvard Business Review released one of their Daily Stats, stating that “regular participation in clubs and other social activities increases happiness to same degree as doubling one’s income.”

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The statement came from Robert D. Putnam, author of Bowling Alone: The Collapse and Revival of American Community, and it’s pretty mind-blowing… So we’ll let that sink in for a minute before continuing. *wink*

If Putnam’s assertion surprises you, if you had no idea how important social interaction is to humans, hold onto your hat — because we’ve got more to share!

Harvard University-trained Matthew D. Lieberman is a professor in the Departments of Psychology, Psychiatry, and Biobehavioral Sciences at the University of California, Los Angeles and the founding editor of the journal Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience. As one of the foremost authorities in the world on the study of social neuroscience, he was awarded the Distinguished Scientific Award for an Early Career Contribution to Psychology by the American Psychological Association in 2007. Simply put: Lieberman’s The Man when it comes to the study of just how social our brains are.

Yes, our brains are decidedly social.

In 2013, Lieberman authored Social: Why Our Brains Are Wired to Connect, a book which reveals just how our need to connect with other people is even more fundamental, more basic, than our need for food or shelter!

While we often think of cognitive abilities, such as intelligence & problem solving, as residing in our brain, we don’t always give our social abilities the same sort of biological significance or importance. We consider general intelligence to be of the hard-wired “nature” side, relegating the “social” to the softer “nurture” dynamic. But as social is learned, it is cognitive and has its place in a the brain. In fact, social cognition has its very own place in the brain. What’s more, these two types of mental actions, the social cognition and the non-social cognition, each require so much concentration that they are in competition with one another for brain-power. When one form of thinking is happening, utilizing its associated regions, the other brain regions are quiet, inactive. Yet, there is a default; when we are in our free moments, our brains revert to social thinking, reflexively considering our social world. Not just our own feelings, but the thoughts and feelings of others.

Lieberman writes of it this way:

It is the brain’s preferred state of being, one that it returns to literally the second it has a chance.

This hard-wiring to connect and interact with others alone should impart how important being social is to our lives. But there’s more.

Our physical pleasure and social rewards share the same neural network. It’s called the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex (dACC), if you must know! This means that social rewards, such as the approval of others, will activate the opioid system, providing a sense of stress relief and pleasure. In other cases, oxytocin is released in order to move us towards helping others as well as reducing our own general fears.

But since both physical and social rewards share the same neural network, it means that our brains also respond the same way to pain — regardless of whether the pain is social or physical. Our break-ups, friendship losses, etc. are as real as physical pains!

So the flip side of what Harvard reported in that Daily Stat is that without companionship, without our social needs being met, we experience unhappiness. Our need for human social connection makes loss, rejection, and loneliness seriously painful. And not only in the short term; it can lead to anxiety, depression, and other mental and physical illnesses.

There’s no doubt in our minds that a social participation deficit can be equal to a serious pay cut.

(I bet our rates don’t seem so high now, do they? *wink*)

While there’s been a lot of discussion about the potential problems with children spending too much time isolated with tech gadgets, there’s, sadly, not been as much of a focus on the affects of adults shunning social interaction for their gadgets. But the good news is that because our brains have specific pathways for social interactions, we can exercise and increase them much like any other intellectual activity or behavior — by having quality social interactions and repeating them often — and increase our happiness along the way.

…I bet you know who would be good for that! *wink*

The Peck & Call Girls: Assisting your brain’s preferred state of being.

(And we’re good for that other head too!)

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